The origin of the bond between mother and baby

Long before his birth and even the intrauterine environment, begins the formation of the bond between the expectant mother and her baby. It is a communication process as complex and subtle, and that this makes it possible to exchange intimate and profound. The link is of vital importance to the fetus, it needs to feel desired and loved to provide the continuation of harmonious and healthy development.
The bond formation is not automatic and immediate, however, is gradual and therefore requires time, understanding and love that can exist and function properly. It is also essential so you can make the moments of maternal concerns and emotional setbacks and we are all subject in everyday life.
Love and rejection repercussions on the child but very early, so you can give meaning to these feelings must neurophysiological maturity. Thus, until the first three months of intrauterine life, the messages sent by the mother are largely misunderstood by the embryo, although they may cause you discomfort is perceived as unpleasant.
As it develops, the fetus becomes able to register and give meaning to the maternal feelings and emotions. That's when then begins to form his personality, which occurs around the third trimester of pregnancy.
The maternal anxiety is in some way beneficial to the fetus, as disturbing the neutrality of the uterine environment, disturb you also aware that it is a distinct being, separate from that environment.
To get rid of this discomfort, he begins to gradually establish defense techniques as kicking, moving around more actively, and work to maternal sensitivity, as a messaging being disturbed. If there is harmony maternal-fetal, immediately expectant mother picks this message and starts to stroke his belly delicate mind, what is perceived and decoded by the fetus as an attitude of understanding, affection and protection, so as reassuring.
With the passage of time, the experience of discomfort turns into excitement and begins the formation of ideas about maternal intentions in relation to himself.
Thus, if the mother is loving and have a rich emotional relationship with your baby, that contribute to a child is born confident and self-assured. So too, if that depressed mothers or ambivalent, for any reason, deprive the fetus of your love and support certainly favor the state and the presence of depressive neuroses in children and can be verified after birth because his personality was structured in climate of fear and anguish.
Even the pregnant woman who rejects his son communicates with him through the feeding. But the quality of this relationship is different from the mother who wants and this is the big difference, because it is not just a biological communication.
As the fetus captures all maternal emotions, those that do get in distress like anxiety, fear and uncertainty, cause you stronger reactions and continuous, while the joy and happiness, not to alter the intrauterine environment, allow their movements remain smooth and harmonious.
The fetus feels that the mother feels, even as an attitude of solidarity, but with different intensity and without understanding mother. Negative emotions are perceived as an attack on itself.