" Letter from a baby to his mother " :

Hi , Mom , how are you? I'm fine , thank God .
It's only been a few days that you conceived me in her tummy .
Actually , I can not explain how happy I am to know that you will be my mother .
Another thing that fills me with pride to see is the love with which I was conceived .
Everything seems to indicate that I will be the happiest child in the world !
Mom , it's been a month since I was conceived and I am beginning to see how my little body began to form , I mean , I'm not as beautiful as you , but give me a chance ! I am very happy ! But there is something that makes me worried ...
Lately I realized that there is something in your head that keeps me awake , but it's okay , it will pass , do not despair .
Mom , it's been two and half months , I am very happy with my new hands and I will use them to play .
Mommy , tell me what's wrong? Why do you cry so much every night? ?
Why when you and Dad are , both yell at each other ?
You do not want me anymore or what? I will do everything possible to make me want to ...
It's been three months , Mom , and I notice you very depressed , do not understand what is happening , I am very confused.
This morning we went to the doctor and he scheduled an appointment for tomorrow ...
I do not understand , I feel fine ... Did you feel bad , Mom ?
Mom , it's daylight , where are we going? What 's going on , Mom ?
Mom , do not lie down , are still 2 in the afternoon , I have no sleep, I want to continue playing with my little hands .
Hey ! What this little tube is doing in my house? !
It's a new toy ? Looks ! !
Hey , why are you sucking my house? !
Mister, why yanked ? ! Do not see what hurts me ? !
Can not you see I'm still too small to defend myself ?
Mom ! ! Wait , this is my little hand ! !
Mother, my little leg , are pulling ! !
Mom , defend me ! !
Mommy, help me !
Tell them to stop , I promise you I will behave myself and I will not kick him .
How is it possible that a human being can do this to me ?
He will only see when I'm big and strong ... Oh Mom , I can no longer ... more ai ... Mommy, Mommy , help me ...
Mom , it's been 17 years since that day , and I , from up here , watch as still hurts you have taken that decision .
Please do not cry . Remember that I love you and I'll be here waiting for you with many hugs and kisses .
Love you so much ! !
Your baby .
You also participate in the campaign :
" All AGAINST abortion ! "
Pass on this message
and ... we can save lives .
A photographer who made ​​the cover of surgery for spina bifida , held inside the womb , a fetus just 21 weeks of pregnancy , a true feat Medical , never imagined that his camera would record perhaps the most eloquent cry for life , known to this day.
Paul Harris caught the moment the baby took her small hand inside the mother's womb , trying to hold a finger that the doctor was operating .
The story behind the picture is even more impressive because it reflects the struggle and past experience by a couple who decided to exhaust all possibilities , even the last resort to save the life of his first son.
A spectacular photograph was published by several newspapers in the United States , and crossed the world to come to Ireland , where he became one of the strongest flags AGAINST the legalization of abortion .
Say yes to life !

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Beauty care in pregnancy

Caring beauty during pregnancy is good for the body and mind, but care is needed to choose cosmetics at that stage. According to Mauricio Pupo, pharmacist, specialist teacher and graduate in Cosmetology, "some products can trigger allergies and rashes, but others cross the placenta and can even be found in breast milk." Department Coordinator of the Brazilian Society of Cosmetic Dermatology Dermatology, Rio de Janeiro, the dermatologist Monica Azulay remember that the professionals in the field of aesthetics and beauty are at more risk because they are constantly exposed to the product. "A pregnant woman can dye your hair, since it paints temporary use - shampoos tint - and do not use the product frequently. Hairdressers and especialists, dealing with different types of paint, every day should wear gloves and masks, preferably in an airy atmosphere, "explains the doctor.

 The following experts take questions asked about the use of substances in beauty products during pregnancy: 
1 Ammonia
 A dermatologist Monica Azulay explains the difference between the products, "The semi-permanent and permanent dyes cover gray hair and last 4 to 6 weeks. These products contain ammonia and should not be used during pregnancy. Temporary dyes which do not penetrate the hair cuticle can be used by pregnant women. The big problem is that professional salons usually mix 2 or 3 colors to achieve the desired shade. For the safety of the mother and baby, you need to make sure the products that are being applied. " A dermatologist remember that henna available in the market is rarely pure. "It is usually associated with metal salts, which can cause problems for the newborn," advises Monica. 
2 Mineral oil
 Present in most products thanks to its emollient action, mineral oil (a derivative of petroleum) was associated in different studies with increased mortality by different types of cancer, such as lymphoma and leukemia. "There are studies published in prestigious scientific journals such as American Journal of Industrial Medicine and Regulatory Toxicology and Pharmacology. The label is possible to identify the presence of mineral oil through the terms of paraffin oil and mineral oil ", explains the expert in cosmetology Mauricio Pupo.
 3 Urea
 A major component of moisturizers, urea penetrates the skin and can cross the placenta, reaching the fetus. "There are no studies explaining the consequences for the baby," says the pharmacist, specialist in cosmetology, Mauricio Pupo. "The National Health Surveillance Agency (ANVISA) has determined that products in dosages higher than 3% of urea on the label must contain a warning not to be used during pregnancy. The court also banned the manufacture of cosmetics with urea concentration greater than 10%, "explains professional. 
4 UV Filter
 According to a study conducted by the University of Zurich in Switzerland, some sunscreens may reach the milk. "The results indicate the presence of UV filters in 85% of breast milk samples tested. How substances can be toxic to the baby, recommend using 100% physical sunscreen minerals during pregnancy, which ensures safety, since it is not absorbed by the skin, "says Mauricio Pupo. The filters to which it refers are made exclusively with titanium dioxide and zinc oxide, folder type water. 
5 Guanidine
 Monica Azulay explains that products for straightening hair usually contain ammonium thioglycolate and guanidine, substances still need further studies to determine potential effects on the mother or the baby. "The guanidine thioglycolate and weaken the hair fiber and hair can irritate the skin, but we have no evidence of fetal malformation. As the effects are little known, recommend that pregnant women do not use these products during the first trimester of pregnancy, "advises dermatologist.

The origin of the bond between mother and baby

Long before his birth and even the intrauterine environment, begins the formation of the bond between the expectant mother and her baby. It is a communication process as complex and subtle, and that this makes it possible to exchange intimate and profound. The link is of vital importance to the fetus, it needs to feel desired and loved to provide the continuation of harmonious and healthy development.
The bond formation is not automatic and immediate, however, is gradual and therefore requires time, understanding and love that can exist and function properly. It is also essential so you can make the moments of maternal concerns and emotional setbacks and we are all subject in everyday life.
Love and rejection repercussions on the child but very early, so you can give meaning to these feelings must neurophysiological maturity. Thus, until the first three months of intrauterine life, the messages sent by the mother are largely misunderstood by the embryo, although they may cause you discomfort is perceived as unpleasant.
As it develops, the fetus becomes able to register and give meaning to the maternal feelings and emotions. That's when then begins to form his personality, which occurs around the third trimester of pregnancy.
The maternal anxiety is in some way beneficial to the fetus, as disturbing the neutrality of the uterine environment, disturb you also aware that it is a distinct being, separate from that environment.
To get rid of this discomfort, he begins to gradually establish defense techniques as kicking, moving around more actively, and work to maternal sensitivity, as a messaging being disturbed. If there is harmony maternal-fetal, immediately expectant mother picks this message and starts to stroke his belly delicate mind, what is perceived and decoded by the fetus as an attitude of understanding, affection and protection, so as reassuring.
With the passage of time, the experience of discomfort turns into excitement and begins the formation of ideas about maternal intentions in relation to himself.
Thus, if the mother is loving and have a rich emotional relationship with your baby, that contribute to a child is born confident and self-assured. So too, if that depressed mothers or ambivalent, for any reason, deprive the fetus of your love and support certainly favor the state and the presence of depressive neuroses in children and can be verified after birth because his personality was structured in climate of fear and anguish.
Even the pregnant woman who rejects his son communicates with him through the feeding. But the quality of this relationship is different from the mother who wants and this is the big difference, because it is not just a biological communication.
As the fetus captures all maternal emotions, those that do get in distress like anxiety, fear and uncertainty, cause you stronger reactions and continuous, while the joy and happiness, not to alter the intrauterine environment, allow their movements remain smooth and harmonious.
The fetus feels that the mother feels, even as an attitude of solidarity, but with different intensity and without understanding mother. Negative emotions are perceived as an attack on itself.

Abortion

Abortion is responsible for one third of deaths among adolescents 15-19 years. This is due to the fact that most of them perform this procedure in clandestine clinics and poor hygienic conditions, alone or unqualified individuals, and the use of drugs that induce abortion.

An epidemiological study conducted in a hospital in the city of Bauru, SP, showed alarming data regarding abortion among adolescents, such as the fact that they, unlike adult women after an abortion, tend to stay more days in hospital, which causes, apart from losses biopsychosocial high cost for the Health System

And particularly, it has been found that girls between 10 and 14 had high rates of abortion. This demonstrates the importance of adapting the current sexual education campaigns to this new reality. As parents of children should also, as today, there is still bias as many of them to approach the subject early in schools. However, currently the same children are inserted in a society increasingly explicit in relation to sex in the media, from the music, television programs, even the family environment.

Considering these facts, and other numbers, such as 3 million abortions in inadequate conditions that were practiced among adolescents in developing countries (in 2008), it becomes necessary to consider what impact would the legalization of abortion in Brazil.

As legalization could reduce the number of deaths and complications of abortion, one must consider the cultural and educational aspects of Brazilian society and the impact of this major step in it.

 

Testimony of Beatrice (name changed to protect the identity of the individual), 36, pregnant at 16.

- I flirted with him for two years. When I spoke to my mother she was very angry, both because I was pregnant at that age and because she did not like my boyfriend. He said he had had sex and my period had not come down. With my father has been calmer, he said 'God bless you and your baby come when he is born perfect and very healthy.'. After my mother took me to the doctor with my boyfriend, she was not together, it only took us, and there I was pregnant gave it. Soon after my parents separated (not by pregnancy) and all was quiet between the three of us, so that today my daughter is proud of them for still being the only granddaughter.
In school who teased about it were the same boys, but very little since there was very strict then generated more curiosity on their part. Studied only the first seven months, the last two could not go, so a friend of mine passed me the lessons and instead of doing the tests, I did work and gave, and gave work .... to make a statement. Never repeat a year and have always been good. Completed high school and stopped studying for about four years. When studied in the morning, nursed before going to school, my pleasure was nine-thirty, went home (lived nearby), nursed, and returned to school. In the 3rd school my daughter was four, waited complete eight so I could get to college, I'm a lawyer.
Thank God everything went right for me, still do not have their own house, but lived together, her father pays child today. But a good thing I took it was that I had to mature very quickly and start to worry about money too soon.

Abortion

An abortion or termination of pregnancy is premature removal or expulsion of an embryo or fetus from the uterus, resulting in your death or being this causada.1 This can occur spontaneously or induced, leading to the end of pregnancy, and the consequent end of the biological activity of the embryo or fetus by use of medications or surgeries.

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Pregnancy in adolescence

As we know adolescence is the maturity of the child, is the process we all go through we turn to adults, aware of what we do, and in the middle of our teenage years, we have to focus on academics, enjoy friends, go out and party, plus all must have limits, especially in girls, any misstep, can be harmed.
Girls beware!
You have not even left the stage doll, and are already moving to make the real more before then think about the consequences, as will disrupt your life, your true friends will move away, will harm your study, and your life as anger only live for the baby.
Often girls ask for parents to let them sleep in the house of a lady friend, LIE, because neither the friend's house if you want to sleep, imagine your parents, because you are quiet in the house of a friend, and you went home the her boyfriend, who you were dating hidden from their parents, and two weeks later you arrive at your parents saying you're pregnant ... Think about how they will get upset, she his lie, and their pregnancy, as surely as guided you what is right and what is wrong!

Stayteen

According to the site Stayteen, here are some things you should know to keep in mind: 

1. Are you actually ready? When it comes to sex, there is no “should” (even though it can definitely feel like it!). It’s not like youshouldhave sex because it’s prom or you should have sex before college. What you SHOULD do is have sex when you’re ready. And that may not match up exactly with the big events on your calendar. Being ready has to do with being comfortable with the idea of sex,  being okay taking on that responsibility, feeling comfortable, supported, and not at all pressured by your partner, and knowing deep down in your gut that it’s the right time for you.
2. Do you want to deal with so many emotions at once? Big life events can come along with a lot of different feelings. Guess what, so can sex. The question here is, do you want to be dealing with all of these emotions at one time? The excitement, anticipation, anxiety, and feeling of nostalgia that come along with anticipated life moments can certainly affect the way you feel about a situation and your judgment. Make sure that the decision you are making feels like one you would have made weeks ago and that you’re not just wrapped up in the moment.
3. Know you can back out. Maybe two months ago you promised your significant other that prom would be THE night. But now that it’s here, you’re not as ready as you thought you’d be…if that’s the case, it is totally FINE to change your plans. You are never obligated to have sex if you don’t feel ready—even if you thought you would be. If you find yourself in this situation, it may be a good idea to tell your partner before the big night so that you can enjoy the party without this worry hanging over your head. A partner that cares about you will understand and be happy that you were honest.
4. Sex won’t be good unless you actually want to be doing it. You can lie to your friends, you can lie to your partner, but you can’t lie to your body. Sex can be very physically pleasurable, but only if you’re in the right frame of mind to be doing it. And if you aren’t actually ready, it’s not going to be fun, that I can promise.
5. If you’ve decided it’s time and you ARE ready, get prepped. One advantage to having planned out a specific day to have sex is that it gives you time to prep for it. Eat your Wheaties, do your strength training, and get some birth control. The best is to use two methods, a condom for him and a hormonal method for her. The more prepared you are and the more you’ve thought out this decision, the more enjoyable it’s going to be! If this is a night you’re going to remember for the rest of your life…you probably want that memory to be a good one.

What is Pregnancy?

 Pregnancy is the state of development of an embryo or fetus within the female body. For a woman to become pregnant, you must first fertilization to occur, ie the successful encounter between sperm and egg and the union of chromosomes, creating a cell called a zygote. Only when the zygote reaches the endometrium (the inner lining of the uterus) is occurs pregnancy. Implanted in the uterus, the zygote is now called the embryo.

Biologically pregnancy can be defined as the period from conception to birth of an individual. Among the lower animals it is pure and simple a process of reproduction of the species. Among humans this experience takes on a social character, ie, can have different meanings for every people, every culture, every age group.

 

Teenage pregnancy

 Called teenage pregnancy pregnancy occurring in young people under 21 who are in full development of this phase of life - adolescence. This type of pregnancy in general was not planned or desired, and comes amid relationships without stability. In Brazil the numbers are alarming.

In Brazil, where there is no birth control and where family planning and sex education are still some issues discussed, pregnancy eventually becomes often a serious social problem to be solved. This is the case of teenage pregnancy.

12 strange curiosities 

1.  Stretching natural
The tribe Caramoja, northeastern Uganda tie a weight on the tip of the penis to lengthen it. Sometimes, the member was so long that the man had to wrap it up. 
2. Testify 
Before a judge the Romans swore to tell the truth gently squeezing the testicles with your right hand, say hence the word witness. 
3. Solitary act 
According to the Kinsey report, taking a half-dozen men who ended up in hospital emergency because they got a little excited beyond measure with a vacuum cleaner, women are more creative in the practice of solitary pleasure and masturbate more often when living in a stable relationship. Women know better and get excited 60% of them claim they found themselves, against only 25% of men. 
4. Ultrasound improvised
 The Egyptian daily urinated on different cereal grains to see if they were pregnant and know the baby's sex. If not germinate because there is no grain was pregnant.

 5. Measures inversely proportional
 According to the Kinsey Institute, the biggest erect penis measures 35.75 cm and the lowest, 4.81 cm. 
6. Constant activity 
Taking into account the attendance that many couples make love, a normal couple would take four years to experience all the 529 positions described in the Kama Sutra. 
7. Bizarre attraction 
Many Egyptians felt sexual attraction for corpses and so the family of a beautiful guarded the body to rot until it was not violated. 
8. Bonfire of prejudiceIn medieval Spain, if a woman suffers a miscarriage, the couple was burned in a fire. 
9. Chastity Ring 
The Romans afraid to take a couple of guampas put a piercing in the foreskin of the slaves not to keep relations with their daughters, wife or other female slaves. 
10. Technical bizarre
 In ancient rome for distinguishing fertile women of sterile deposited a clove of garlic into the genital organ until dawn and the smell of garlic passed into his mouth would have a child and if it was not sterile.
 
11. Sexual executioner

Not to violate a Roman law that prevented the execution of the virgin women Tiberius ordered before were violated by the executioner. 
12. Without much logic
 A tradition says that if a woman became pregnant during menstruation, their children would be redheads.

TOOKED FROM: 12 curiosidades bizarras sobre o sexo  ~click~